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Collaborative Family Law

A calmer way
through separation.

Resolve your parenting and property matters around a table, not in a courtroom. Guided by specialists, at a pace you set, with the costs known before every step.

No court, by agreementFixed fees, known upfrontAttend together or alone
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Is this you

You want it resolved.
You don't want a war.

Most people who choose collaboration say the same three things.

"We can still talk, mostly."

You and your former partner are not enemies. With structure and support, you could sit at the same table and work through what matters.

"The children come first."

Whatever happens between the two of you, you will be co-parents for life. How you separate shapes the family your children grow up in.

"I want my life back."

Court can take years and cost more than money. You want a fair outcome, a known price, and a finish line measured in months.

Not sure if that's you? Take the three minute Start Here journey and find out what path fits.

The process

Six steps. One table.
No courtroom.

Most families resolve in three to five joint meetings, typically over three to six months.

01

Information session

Together or separately

A conversation about your situation and whether collaboration suits you. Come alone, or together with your former partner. You leave understanding exactly how it works before committing to anything.

02

Building your team

Meet and greet

Each of you engages your own collaborative lawyer, and together we assemble what your family needs: a collaborative coach, and where useful a financial neutral or child specialist. Everyone signs the Participation Agreement, the shared commitment to resolve without court.

03

Foundation work

Preparation

Full financial and parenting disclosure exchanged, the property pool clarified, communication coaching so joint sessions are productive, and your goals made explicit.

04

Roundtable meetings

Negotiation

The heart of the process. With an agreed agenda for every session, you work through parenting, property and support. Your coach keeps discussions future-focused; your lawyers advise and advocate respectfully.

05

Making it binding

Documentation

Once you reach agreement we make it real: a Parenting Plan, Consent Orders filed with the Court, or a Binding Financial Agreement, with clear written advice before you sign anything.

06

Moving forward

Completion

We finalise your file, reconcile your trust account and return unused funds. You finish with an outcome you both built, and a co-parenting relationship intact.

If the process ends without agreement, both collaborative lawyers must withdraw. Everyone at the table, including the lawyers, is invested in reaching agreement. You never pay for steps that were not commenced.

The collaborative meeting table at Orbell Family Lawyers
The table, not the courtroom.
The collaborative commitment
Your team

Built around your family.

Separation is emotional, financial and legal all at once. Your team covers all three, and scales to what your family actually needs.

Legal

Your lawyer

A specialist family lawyer from Orbell Family Lawyers who advises you privately and advocates for what matters to you at the table.

Legal

Their lawyer

A collaboratively trained lawyer supporting your former partner the same way, committed to the same process and rules.

Communication

Collaborative coach

A neutral specialist who manages the emotional side, keeps meetings respectful and future-focused, and is often the role families value most.

Financial

Financial neutral

One jointly engaged expert giving the whole table numbers everyone can trust, instead of duelling experts.

Children

Child specialist

Where parenting is involved, brings your children's perspective into the room safely and age-appropriately.

A note from our founder
Sheree Orbell, Solicitor Director
"Separation is hard. Getting good help shouldn't be. If you are wondering whether collaboration could work for your family, come and ask. The conversation costs an hour, and it might change how this chapter of your life goes."
Sheree Orbell, Solicitor Director and Accredited Collaborative Lawyer
Where to begin

Wondering if this is your path?

Answer seven short questions, privately and in confidence. In about three minutes you will have a clear sense of whether collaboration fits your family, and the right first step to take.

Send an enquiry instead
Fixed fees

Know the cost before every step.

Each step has a defined scope and a known price before it starts. All fees include GST. Steps you never need are never billed.

The fees below are our standard fixed fees and a guide to what your matter may involve. We confirm the exact fees for your situation in writing before each step begins, so you always know the cost before you commit to it.

No surprisesYou approve every step and its fee before we begin. All calls and correspondence within a step are included.
Only what you useUnused steps are never charged, and unused trust funds are returned to you.
Consulted firstIf a need arises outside these steps, we consult you before any cost is incurred.

Starting well

Stage one

Information session and suitability assessment

A 90 minute consultation with a specialist family lawyer: explore the issues, understand the process, develop your strategy.

$450

Confirming the collaborative pathway

A letter to your former partner introducing the process, confirmation you both agree to proceed, advice on alternatives if they decline.

Additional correspondence rounds $690 each.

$1,295

Agreements, team and preparation

Participation and cost agreements finalised, your team assembled, disclosure gathered, the property pool prepared, first session organised.

$2,950

Your first roundtable meeting

The team meet and greet and first working session: up to three hours, with minutes and a written summary afterwards.

$2,650

Working towards agreement

Stage two

Further roundtable meetings

Full preparation, attendance up to three hours, minutes and outcome summary. Most matters resolve in three to five meetings.

$4,450per meeting

Settlement or strategy meetings

Shorter sessions of up to 90 minutes to review valuations, expert feedback or settlement options.

$1,295per meeting

Documenting your agreement

Stage three

Application for Consent Orders

Searches, drafting, one amendment round, filing with the Court, and your sealed orders explained. Court filing fee included.

Additional amendment rounds or requisition response $995 each.

$5,995

Parenting Plan

Your parenting agreement drafted clearly, reviewed with you, finalised with your former partner's lawyer.

$1,995

Superannuation split

Procedural fairness to the trustee and all implementation documentation. Self managed funds $1,485 including adviser liaison.

$995

Binding Financial Agreement

Spousal maintenance BFA prepared or reviewed with comprehensive written advice before you sign. Property BFAs quoted separately.

Additional amendment rounds $995 each.

$2,995

Optional extras

Only if needed

Expert and valuation coordination

Property or asset valuation $989. Business or entity valuation $5,995. Expert fees are separate, quoted first, and usually shared.

from $989

Written settlement proposals

Making a proposal $1,995. Receiving and advising $1,495. Further proposals $1,495 each.

from $1,495

Strategy sessions and correspondence

60 minute strategy session $579. Correspondence outside a fixed fee step $749 per communication.

from $579

Your starting investment

Information session (90 minutes)$450
Confirming the collaborative pathway$1,295
Agreements, team and preparation$2,950
Your first roundtable meeting$2,650
To complete your first roundtable$7,345

All fees include GST. Later stages are only charged if and when you instruct us to begin them, and we confirm each fee with you first. Fixed fees apply as set out in your cost agreement.

Common questions

Asked by almost every couple.

Can we both come in together?

Yes. We welcome you both to attend an initial joint information session where we explain how collaborative practice works, what to expect, who may be involved, and the likely costs. It is not a meeting where legal advice is provided to either of you. If you both decide to proceed, each of you engages your own collaboratively trained lawyer: one of you may choose Orbell Family Lawyers, while the other engages a lawyer from another firm, and we can recommend experienced practitioners we regularly work alongside.

What is a collaborative coach?

A neutral communication specialist who supports you both through the emotional side of separation and keeps joint meetings productive. Not compulsory, but most collaborative matters include one, and families consistently tell us it is the role they value most.

How long does it take?

Most matters resolve within three to five joint meetings, typically over three to six months. You and your former partner set the pace, not a court timetable.

What if my former partner will not participate?

Collaboration needs both of you at the table. If your former partner declines, we will advise you on the alternatives, including mediation and negotiated settlement, and recommend the best pathway forward.

Will we ever go to court?

The only court involvement in a successful collaboration is administrative: filing your Consent Orders for approval. Neither of you attends, and there is no hearing.

What happens if the process breaks down?

The Participation Agreement requires both collaborative lawyers to withdraw, and we follow a structured handover: a complete file transfer pack and costs summary, referral to experienced litigation representation, and a full trust account reconciliation. You never pay for steps that were not commenced.

Is collaboration cheaper than court?

Usually, substantially. But the bigger difference is certainty and control: you know each cost before it is incurred, you spend money on resolution rather than conflict, and you finish in months rather than years.

Enquire

Start the conversation.

Tell us a little about your situation and we will be in touch within one business day. There is no obligation, and your enquiry is confidential.

We check every enquiry so we never act for, or speak with, both sides of the same matter. Strictly confidential.

Sending an enquiry does not make you a client and does not create a lawyer-client relationship. We handle your information under the Privacy Act 1988 (Cth), used only to respond and run our confidentiality check.

Prefer to talk?

Call us during business hours, or email and we will call you back at a time that suits.

(02) 4314 6080

info@orbellfamilylawyers.com.au

Offices in Newcastle, the Central Coast, Northern Beaches and North Shore Sydney.